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夫妻莫论理家和万事兴

2014-10-08 16:18:00| 分类：随笔 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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国庆期间，公司好多对形影相随的恋人或探亲访友，或外出旅游，那样亲昵、那样甜蜜。也有好几对相互仰慕的新人进入婚姻殿堂，结为百年之好，那样欢欣、那样幸福。我衷心祝福他们幸福永远。

我这个过来人只想说一点感受：恋爱时，往往看不到对方的毛病，所以需要保持清醒。结婚后，往往只看到对方的不足，所以需要彼此包容。爱是一种责任，承担了这份责任，就要经得起岁月的考验，爱一个人，就要对对方负责一辈子。须知，家庭不是讲理的地方，夫妻间没有对与错、高与低、好与坏。夫妻不是论理的对手，需要的只有理解、体谅、折衷、迁就，夫唱妇随才能白头偕老。

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